Everybody’s looking for “The One”. That person who completes you, your other half. Sometimes you think you’ve found them, and they slip out of your hands. You think to yourself, “What do I do now? It was them. They were it. I’ll never love anyone like that again.” And you know what? You won’t. Every love is unique. Every love is special. Sometimes, we get blinded by our love and we think that our current love is our only option, and losing it just isn't an option. So when we do lose it, (and lets face it, we do most of the time) we fall apart because we think we’ve run out of options. If we honestly sit down and think about it though, we’ll find that there are so many other people to explore and get to know. Every love is an adventure, and just like people, no two adventures or experiences will be the same. You will learn something new from every failed relationship and every broken heart. Every memento, every t-shirt or necklace you never gave back, every memory, is a lesson.
Here’s how I see it.
When you’re born, your heart is whole. It is pure, and perfect. As you grow up, as you start to gain conscious thought and opinions and start to feel, it gets warped and broken. Even little kids. From the moment you start being conscious of the feeling of love, your heart starts to fracture. It’s a little bit like horcruxes, only with people. Every person you love, will carry a piece of your heart with them forever. Your parents, your siblings, your friends, your failed relationships, people you wish you could get back, someone you’re with right now, they all have a piece of your heart. Our hearts all have pieces missing from all of the people we’ve loved.
And when we find someone who's broken parts fit into ours, that is when we've found "The One."
Just think about it darlings. Much love y'all.
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